ARTiculate – the window to your Soul

Humans have been creating art for centuries, and in fact Spain’s El Castillo cave houses the oldest known cave paintings in Europe, which date back to at least 40,600 years.

And today art has evolved into one of the elitist industries in the world, with old master’s paintings selling for astronomical sums.  Some would say that in fact many aspects of the art world could be seen as pretentious, in that obscurity, ideology and an Artists’ fame can take precedence over the heart-felt creation and beauty or meaning held within the art itself.

But what if art holds an even deeper meaning?

What if art could convey the unconscious messages from our Soul?


Whilst being absorbed in the moment of creating art, many Artists, myself included, report feeling totally at one with the flow of life, as if time has stood still, and hours can pass which feels like minutes. This is because when we get into this flow state, we are in fact at one with our Soul, where it operates from a no-time space reality.

When we give ourselves the gift of stillness to connect-in and become one with our Soul, that’s when our creativity can flow, that’s when our creations have the most meaning, a sense of profound wisdom and beauty.

One of my favourite things to do in my business, SOUL PASSION  is to run my ARTiculate your Soul Plan workshops.

Soul Plan is the energetic compass of your Soul; a highly accurate and healing system which reveals the layers of your Life Purpose and helps you understand you and your life at a deep level.

Essentially, ARTiculate fuses the knowledge contained within our  Soul’s Plan and expresses it out visually, grounding our Soul’s intentions in a visual format, a Life-vision board from our Soul.

“Creative Bliss! Thoroughly enjoyed being in the flow and getting inspired in tune with my soul’s purpose. Hayley created a beautiful, nurturing and inspirational space for us to create our Soul Purpose paintings, it was a beautiful experience from start to finish, and I am so happy with what I have created despite having reservations about my ability to paint!! Thank you so much!”

My Soul Plan Painting, helping guide me towards authentic goals


My own Soul Plan painting, helps keep me motivated to continue to pursue my ambitions, as well as reminds me how my challenges have helped shape and guide me towards running a business that is authentically aligned.



The ARTiculate your Soul Plan Experience takes place at the beautiful haven that is The Upminster Sanctuary (situated in the Essex counryside within easy access to London).

ARTiculate is accessible to everyone regardless of perceived artistic ability, with fast-track tools and techniques which enable those that may not be confident in their artistry to create something that is beautiful, meaningful  and speaks to them from their Soul and will continue to guide them for the rest of their life.


ARTiculate is a luxury day retreat, with creativity, deep relaxation, meditation, scrumptious food and refreshments, fun connections and collaborations and of course the gift to connect to  and express your Soul’s Plan through art.


“What an amazing & beautiful experience !! If you have ever wondered why you have met certain challenges along life’s course – wonder no more … Hayley has an amazing gift of guiding you through your Soul Plan in a reading and supporting the group for the Articulate day !!! I was speechless at how powerful it was from the planning, before hand, the taking part in the day & the continuing affects afterwards. I have never painted in my life & loved every second of the day together with the spiritual meanings of what you are guided to paint. Everyone had a different story to tell. For me it was like putting the pieces of a jigsaw together with a sigh of relief in understanding there was a plan & I am on the right path… A truly inspirational course – more please !!!”


The next ARTiculate Your Soul Plan Experience is held on Saturday 1st September 2018.

Places are limited so click here to contact me or call 0207 129 7348 for further info and how to book.


Would you love to understand yourself at a deeper level so things start falling into place?  I’d love to help you move forwards…

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With love from



The Power of Forgiveness

My healing work and life in general has taught me that forgiveness is often a concept that is greatly misunderstood.

As with all things in life,  acts of wrong-doing can be viewed upon a continuum ranging from a friend’s broken promise to causing the death of another.

Many view forgiveness as condoning a wrong-doing or often liken it to letting someone ‘off the hook’ who may have been the catalyst of great pain or suffering.

Surely that person deserves to be resented, hated even to fit the ‘crime’ so to speak, that’s only right isn’t it?

Imagine that these resentments actually form the bars of a cage around you…

Constraining and trapping you from living your best life…

Stopping you from appreciating the true beauty that is within you and around you.

Forgiveness is a mark of your STRENGTH not your weakness

I invite you to look at forgiveness from a new, perspective.

Forgiveness, even if taken in baby steps, can start to dissipate the bars of the cage, gradually allowing more light and beauty from outside to flood in and allowing your own sense of freedom and inner beauty to shine out into the world…

Forgiveness is a POWERFUL gift… When you forgive, you are deciding how you want to feel rather than allowing the actions of another to have a negative hold upon you…

Forgiveness means that you are powerfully deciding self empowerment versus being a victim…

Forgiveness can become your tonic, your strength, your Allie…

…your healing gift to move on.

We can forgive even in the midst of the worst abuse, we can use forgiveness to end the cycle of abuse “abuse begets abuse”, to let go of the need to punish, to be right and, so importantly, the need to keep suffering because of the past”  Pearl Howie

My good friend Pearl Howie is a Travel and Wellbeing Writer and eloquently expresses her own experiences of forgiveness within her guide ‘Camino de la Luna – Forgiveness’

Camino De La Luna is Spanish for ‘Path of the Moon’.

As a special gift you can download the free ebook version (without pictures) by clicking here

Or if you’d like to purchase Pearl’s ebook in all it’s technicolour glory you can purchase it for just £6.27 by clicking here.

Are resentments holding you back in your own life?  Is resentment and anger towards ex partner/s holding you back from welcoming the love of your life into your life? I’d love to help you move forwards…

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With love from




Attracting Love is an Inside Job

Flashback to almost a decade ago…I’d lost count of the times I’d been asked that elusive question…

“so why are you single?”

… surely if I knew the answer to it, I wouldn’t be single would I!!

To top off my euphoria about being ‘permanently single’ my late Grandmother, Nanny Doll,  who was a wonderfully loving Nan (albeit a little blunt at times) would often inqure about my love-life….

Nan: “so, have you met a nice man yet?”

Me: “been on a few dates but not met anyone I really, really like, you  know….”

Nan:… *dramatic pause*….“one of my cousins was a Spinster”

Me:  “Thanks Nan!”

Luckily my friends thought I was cool…(some of the time anyway) they called me ‘The Dating Queen’ and thought my personal life was exciting…they enjoyed hearing about my dating calamities and tales.

I really was a real-life Dating Expert, I’d even ‘starred in’ and won Wedding TV’s Realty Series ‘Around The World In 80 Dates’ where I had to find a man to undergo a dating challenge in each port on a sailing trip around the Med’!

It sounds much more glamorous than it actually was… though I can honestly say, I’ve literally been there, done it and bought the T-shirt in terms of dating and doing everything you’re meant to do to find find love.

On a date for the TV show!

Although I’d had a few three month relationships through my teens and up to my early thirties and went on plenty of dates that lead nowhere, I was single for the majority of that time and had become so disillusioned with love…. I began to think love just wasn’t meant to happen for me.


Ultimately it was my frustration, unconscious fears and sadness about not being able to ‘find love’ that was the catalyst that put me on a path of spiritual development and self healing.

In 2011, after browsing the internet, I came across a Spiritual Teacher called Blaire Alison, based in America, known as The Love Guru.  She specialises in helping people attract love through a spiritual approach.   It so happened that we had our first session together in Blackfriars in London, as she was in London for two weeks.  Now that’s what I call divine timing!

For the next three months I received spiritual counselling and healing which kickstarted my spiritual development journey.   Before working with Blaire, I didn’t even know exactly what healing was or how it worked though what I did know, was that I couldn’t carry on doing what I was doing and this new approach to love felt lighter with a sense of hope rather than continued disappointment.

Through the work Blaire and I did together, I found the real me… I began to understand and recognise my spiritual gifts and began to clear away old thought patterns that were no longer serving me around love and relationships….

The truth is that LOVE and attracting LOVE is an INSIDE JOB.

“Many times people are looking for their partner, their ideal partner, their soulmate and they say they can’t find them.  They’re looking and they’re looking and they can’t find them.  Well, if your soul mate is not knocking on your door; it’s because you’re not ready.  It’s not that you’re not looking hard enough.  We have to prepare for that to happen in our life.  And the preparation for finding the right person in your life, connecting with them is being the right person”  John Gray

After my spiritual awakening with The Love Guru,  over the next few years I  continued self healing and my spiritual development journey through reading, self development and educating myself through many holistic training courses.

Essentially I was simultaneously continuing to heal my heart whilst building my new purposeful career as a Healer and Soulpreneur…

What I now know for certain is that the more you pine for, long for, focus on the lack of the relationship, the more you actually repel what you seek.

You could look like Angelina Jolie, have the voice of Maria Carey, the brains of Carol Vordeman, the personality of  Dawn French, the cooking (and sex appeal!) of Nigela Lawson….

and still not attract a Soulmate if:

…you are continually focused on the lack of a relationship and how unfair it is

…you have consistent, negative inner-dialogue about self-worth, love and relationships

…you have fears  (known or unknown) around love, relationships or intimacy

…you’re continually ‘on the look out’ for your man

…he must be out there somewhere right?

I’ve learned everything there is to know about love and attracting a beautiful romantic soulmate relationship into my life.

I have been single for quite some time, and the Align to Love Programme came along at just the right time. Working with Hayley over the last 4 months has been enlightening especially with the Soul Plan Reading. She provides a wonderful space to explore what might have been holding me back in creating the relationship I desire. I now feel much more connected to myself and am ready to invite a loving relationship into my life. Thank you Hayley, and I look forward to more energy sessions with you !  Natasha, London


Step by step I transformed my mindset and changed my entire outlook and attitude towards ‘finding love’… I learned how to take only ‘aligned action’ that was in tune with my Heart and Soul and learned how to effortlessly attract the love of my life into my life.







….Three years ago on the 16th May, I  effortlessly met my wonderfully handsome, supportive, kind, talented and funny Soulmate (and partner in crime!)

Dave, and I have just celebrated our anniversary during a holiday in the beautiful and romantic country that is Montenegro, situated on the Adriatic Coast.

Many times I thought I was never going to meet my Soulmate…

I don’t want you to have to go through what I did…

There is an easier, lighter way…

I have complete faith in you…

You have all the resources within you to welcome a soulmate relationship into your life.

If you want to have a meaningful relationship, stop looking for the right person.  I’ll repeat that; if you want to have a meaningful relationship, stop looking for the right person, but become the right person”

Deepak Chopra

Would you like my support to help you Align To Love so you are completely prepared to welcome a beautiful soulmate relationship into your life?

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With much love


Let Your Soul Light The Way…


In February, I had the pleasure of speaking at Olympia in London for The Best You Expo  (Europe’s largest Personal and Professional Development Expo)

Below is the video footage of my live talk ‘Let Your Soul Light The Way’

In my talk I explain….

how we can in fact understand our Life Purpose for this lifetime as well as begin to understand the callings of our Soul more easily.

When we understand the plan our Soul has for us,  understand our Soul’s language, are receptive to receive it’s guidance and follow through by taking Soul Aligned Action;  we then allow ourselves to flow with life more effortlessly, increasing our sense of faith and confidence in ourselves and in life itself.

If you’d like to know more… gift yourself twenty minutes to sit back, relax, grab a cuppa or put on a brew and hit play!

Would you like life to become easier?  Do you want to become aware of your purpose and start living life more fully by stepping into your potential?

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With love from

The Gift of Gratitude from your own HEART…

“I think the heart is gratitude.  I think the heart is a feeling.  It is the Sanctuary for the deepest feelings that can be found within the human experience.  And I think among these feelings is the feeling of gratitude.  The feeling of being thankful, of being grateful, and of being so in love with life and with everything in life and even, dare I say it, in love with ourselves”

Neale Donald Walsch


Yesterday I attended a webinar about accessing Your Success Signature with the inspirational Rosemary Cunningham.  During the webinar, Rosemary reinforced my understanding that the heart is not just a (very vital) pump, but it also has it’s own intelligence and plays a much more complex role than traditional biology gives it credit for…

I’ll be writing another, more in depth article about the science behind the heart’s intelligence very soon…but in the meantime you might want to check out The Heart Math Instutite’s fascinating findings.

When we consciously connect with our heart and make decisions or take actions based on what we feel through our hearts, rather than out of reactions to anger, fear or obligations of what we think we should do the result is ALWAYS more beneficial for ourselves and others.

“A trust of life begins to be activated within us.  We realise we’re trusting the heart, we’re trusting our own soul, and it never leads us wrong.  The next step, we know it.  We feel it.  It’s right there.”  Michael Beckwith

When we take time to connect with our heart, the gifts to ourself and others is invaluable…

When we consciously connect with the wisdom within our hearts; we make better decisions, we experience more love, freedom, compassion, authenticity, alignment to our highest and wisest self and experience more fun, light-heartedness and joy.

A gift from your HEART…

Here is a HEART powered GRATITUDE Meditation filmed as a FACEBOOK LIVE which I intuitively created back in October last year (2016)….

So….give yourself a gift from your heart…sit back for 15 mins and enjoy feeling relaxed and empowered from the love, wisdom and gratitude of your own heart.

With love from



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7 steps to ‘coming out’ of your Spiritual Closet…

Are you a closet Spiritual Guru?

Do you read spiritual books in secret? Perhaps you’re scared of sharing your ‘woo woo’ views with your partner or family for fear of ridicule or abandonment?  Have you been dreaming of incorporating spiritual principles into your career but are fearful of repercussions?

My spiritual work is now an absolute passion of mine and every appropriate opportunity that comes my way to speak out about what I feel is an intrinsic part of humanity is embraced.

Being interviewed on That’s Oxford TV with Emma-Jane Taylor

But it wasn’t always this way.  In the beginning of my own spiritual journey, I was very scared of being ridiculed, felt immense fear about what others thought of me and worried that people would think I had ‘lost the plot’ talking about Angels and energies that most people can’t see with the naked eye!!

It was a gradual process of revelation and I’m so proud that I stuck with it and didn’t give up or hide away from the truth of  following my true path and expressing the real me.

I want you to know that if you are currently in your Spiritual Closet and feel too ashamed, scared or ultra-vulnerable you are not alone, this is perfectly normal.

Many of us who are destined to practice spiritual work or share spiritual principles in this lifetime are experiencing or have experienced  varying degrees of fear;  much of this is carried through from  ‘past lifetimes’ where persecution of ‘witches’ who were simply women who would be now known as Herbalists or Holistic Therapists was commonplace.

I want you to know that there has never been a safer time in history to express the real you!

Since 2011 there has been a huge energetic shift within our planet; financial constructs, methodologies, thinking models, societal norms are being shaken to their core.. imagine a field has been ploughed, and in the process all of the gunk has come up out of the ground.  This preparation of the field has made way for the fresh new crops to begin springing into life again.    Energetically a path for growth and revelation has been sewed.

Large corporate companies now embrace the concept of meditation as being a standard tool for stress reduction and spiritual Teachers ranging from Wayne Dyer to Gabby Bernstein have become house-hold names. Just ten years ago this would have been unheard of.

Never has there been a time where spiritual practices and concepts have been so heavily investigated scientifically; with controlled experiments statistically suggesting that many spiritual concepts and hypotheses are not just a phenomenon but their results and effectiveness can be accurately measured and quantified.

If you are a closet Spiritual Guru here are 7 steps to ‘coming out’ with grace and ease:
  1. Know that no one really cares that much!  Yep, you read that right.   Most people are too caught up in their own world to really give too much of a damn about your spiritual views unless it directly affects them. Blunt but true!
  2. Self Care is paramount:  Before you ‘come out’ ensure that you are in an emotionally stable place.  Do whatever it takes for you to care for yourself; exercise, massage, healing, taking time out to process your feelings is essential.  If you feel that your feelings are being repressed; write your thoughts and feelings down.  You’ll feel so much lighter.
  3. Join like-minded Communities:  There is no need to live with your ‘secret’ in isolation.  Join a Facebook group or visit and join some of their spiritual communities.  You can then begin discussing and sharing your knowledge and passion firstly with those who you know are on your ‘wavelength.’
  4. Do your science homework:  When you are ready to speak freely about your beliefs,  being able to confidently back up concepts up by science will help you eloquently talk about the mind, body and spirit connection with ease.  Do your research on experiments that have looked into the effectiveness of alternative therapies and how quantum physics explains spiritual principles.
  5. Read biographies of your favourite Spiritual Teachers; you’ll most likely find that their journey incorporated overcoming fear of being seen and heard publicly.
  6. Youtube it:  This is an optional but powerful step. Practice filming yourself talking about your beliefs and passions (your smartphone will do) and publish to Youtube as a private video so only you can view it.   When you’re feeling brave, you can change the settings to public and voila!
  7. Finally, pick someone you trust to open up to.  You’ll likely be pleasantly surprised by their reaction.

Even if you can’t see it now, little by little, you’ll gain your own inner security around your beliefs and principles and the opinions of others will matter less and less.

Not everyone is going to agree, like or want to hear what you have to say plus the world would be very boring if we all shared exactly the same opinions.

What’s important is being true to your own essence.

When you begin living in alignment with who you truly are you’ll be able to experience life with heightened levels of joy and freedom.

Woman, Magic, Mystery, Truth, Here, Now

When you live from a place of authenticity and security, there truly are no limits to the positive change you can create in the world.

With love and light

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